Tweet When it comes to relationships, there are many things that can attract us to someone else. All of those things can be sorted into three distinct groups, or spheres. Some may fall into more than one, for we are complex creatures and our relationships reflect that, but that just gives us more ways of… Continue reading Three Spheres of Attraction
Where did you learn how to be in a relationship?
Tweet Just something quick this week as there’s a lot going on around here. Over the last week or so, I’ve been pondering where we learn how to be in a relationship. Be it with specific others, romantic, platonic, with ourselves, or with the world in general. In part, the wondering was inspired by reading… Continue reading Where did you learn how to be in a relationship?
Being Mindful of Who You Are
Tweet Not to get all new agey on you, but I’ve found that this really helps in a lot of situations. One of the core precepts of Buddhism is mindfulness. Mindfulness is tuning in and paying attention to who and where you are right now. It anchors you in the present moment. Now, it’s not… Continue reading Being Mindful of Who You Are
Your Cheating Heart
Tweet Over at FeelGooder.com, there’s an interesting article that came up about Emotional Affairs. You should go check that out. I think it touches on one of the key issues that I’ve seen destroy a lot of relationships. The lack of connection that makes the heart begin to wander always leads to a breakdown in… Continue reading Your Cheating Heart
Video: Head Over Heels
Tweet Yet another little bit of animation that leaves me feeling… odd. Much like the one I posted last week (Crater Face), I can get a lot of different messages from this one. How about you? Fast Tube by Casper
Something to Think About
Tweet I came across this little animated short the other day and found it kind of cute and sweet. At least at first. Now I’m not so sure. I think it’s prompted some deep musings. But before I share mine, I want to hear yours. From a relationship perspective, what do you think of this… Continue reading Something to Think About
Single Saves Money!
Tweet For those of us who’d rather crush on people than date them, social life can be a little difficult at times. Not because of how we feel about our choice or situation, but because of how others do. Far too often anyone who’s single for more than a couple of months gets “that look”… Continue reading Single Saves Money!