Before you can have a truly deep and meaningful relationship with others, you have to cultivate one with yourself.
A big part of that is learning to be alone, comfortably–to enjoy your own company and not rely on the constant hum and sputter of the world at large to keep you from getting to know (and love) yourself.
Filmmaker Andrea Dorfman created this very nice little video that resonates well with me and may be a help to you:
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs